Every day 20, people visit the HealthWiki for lifesaving health information. Make a gift Make a gift to support this essential health information people depend on. There are many different ways people have sex and share pleasure together. People often think of sex as only between a man and a woman, and only with a penis in a vagina. But there are many other ways people have good sex and express their love with another person. Sex is not just about a person's genitals. Kissing, hugging, and talking are part of having sex.